(Senatobia, MS, USA)
Hello! My name is Ben, and I'm 22 years old. I started having sex and exploring my body nearly a year ago. I've been doing a lot of research about the male G-spot and all of the ways that a man can gain that mind blowing pleasure, that I myself am seeking. I'm having a very difficult time finding hitting my prostate during intercourse and masturbation. I've tried external and internal methods to producing an organism, but I always come up short, and it's very frustrating. I've tried having intercourse with my partner and I've even tried using a vibrating dildo, but no luck. Having sex seems so complicated, because of this problem that I'm having finding my prostate. Is it no big enough? It is too far away from the rectum? I have no idea and I'm in desperate need of help. Any advice would be appreciated. I look forward to a response.
My best piece of advice is to stop worrying about your prostate and look to enjoy sex! Focus on the pleasure you can give your partner and the pleasure you are experiencing.
You can also use the prostate massage device which is better than your finger:
Pro-State Prostate Massage Device
To learn more about the joys of sex and how to master love making and your sexual energy including the prostate read the classic book:
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